Ten minutes ago, I put my foot down and blocked a former friend/ occasional suitor/ former fling from my Whatsapp, MSN, and am considering removing him from my facebook list altogether.
Some of my close friends have already heard a lot about this guy: how he didn't pursue me for months after we met and then bitched about me hooking up with other guys, how he offended me by calling me Hongkie and refusing to apologize even after I explained to him the meaning, how we agreed to make plans for a Saturday night and the day before he said he invited some friends and asked if I'd like to join..... All these happened a while ago and we hadn't really been in touch lately.
Last weekend, I suddenly got some random messages from this guy on Whatsapp, and I replied with "huh?" as I was completely clueless. He replied with, "nothing." This repeated three times in a row within 20 minutes. So I ignored his messages assuming he was being weird or he might have sent me messages by mistake.
Just now, he sent me some random message, and we exchanged some silly, meaningless messages.... when I mentioned the lack of a handsome guy emoticon on iPhone, he sent me a picture of a man. The man in the picture looked like he was in his late 30's, serious, mature, face a little chubby, skin a bit rough, banker/ businessman looking... I spoke my mind and said,"who is that? He looks very scary." He replied,"Sexy. Your English is going downhill." I replied,"who is he? He really scares me." He said,"that's me!" I said,"no way! The face doesn't look like you. The skin condition doesn't look like you. Those glasses aren't even yours!" He said,"it's me!" (Okay I have to admit that I was stupid and still didn't believe it was him and I did say,"What?!!! No way!! What happened? That doesn't look like you at all!" (I guess "what happened" did it.) Suddenly he said,"okay I'm going to bed. Good night." I replied,"what?! That's so rude of you!" He then said I was mean to make fun of him. I tried to explain, but without luck, and finally told him not to ever message me again.
Jesus Christ! I really had no friggin clue that was him! I did re-open that picture 4 times for a close look, and I was damn sure that wasn't him! Last time I saw him was a few months ago and he still looked exactly the same as he had always looked - young, cheeky, quite good-looking, and with rather nice skin. How would I know he became fat and bloated and old in just 2 months?! I immediately went on facebook to check his latest pictures - and indeed in his last three pictures he looked 8 years older and 1.5 times his normal size.
Regardless, I've put up with a lot of his spoiled brat shit for a long time. I decided that was it! I had to cut him off and not let him upset me anymore. As much as I occasionally had fun times with him, he really is too weird and spoiled and immature for me, even as a friend. I am so sick of immature guys who have no clue how to treat a girl nicely and with respect.
Let me start my year afresh!
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